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Communication Styles Could Be an Early Indication of Imminent Divorce

By Denver Divorce Lawyer on January 27, 2010

A recent CBS.com article discussed an episode of The Early Show in which a well-known psychotherapist visited the program. The discussion focused on how communication styles and positive-to-negative interactions can contribute towards a divorce. More specifically, a total of five types of marriages were reportedly identified.

A “pursuer/distance marriage” carries with it a high risk of divorce. This type of marriage is characterized by problems being dismissed and not talked about. “Disengaged marriages” involve individuals who don’t need intimacy or lack mutual interests, and these marriage types are also prone to having a high risk of divorce. “Operatic marriages” are characterized by repetitive cycles of fighting and reconciling, also translating to high risk of divorce. “Cohesive individuated marriages” consist of shared responsibilities and marriage being viewed as a refuge, translating to a lower risk of divorce in the long run. Marriages labeled as “traditional” consist of genders roles being interpreted by couples as simply traditional, with instances of divorce in these cases being lowest.

The article goes on to mention that strong marriages have a positive-to-negative interaction ratio of at least 5-to-1, meaning that these couples have at least five positive experiences together for every one negative experience. As this ratio diminishes, it is speculated, the risk of divorce inevitably rises. Other factors mentioned in the news story included length of marriage, the age of marrying couples, and whether or not a child has become a part of the marriage.

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Source:http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2002/08/06/earlyshow/health/health_news/main517731.shtml